How does it feel to come across a truth that wants to make you believe that everything you ever held onto thus far is nothing but a lie?
To be there, to have the floor from underneath your feet vanish and make you want to forget all that you were about, is the most terrible of feelings. A feeling that I don’t wish for my harshest nemesis.
Trying to deal with something so affecting, I came across things I’d otherwise not known.
1. People are deceptive. Deception is barely ever constrained to friends and lovers. It could even be the people who you trust your life with.
2. You are and always will be enough for yourself because that’s how you’ve been created. Self-sufficiency will bring you peace.
3. Not everyone you come across in the process of recovery is a victim or a villain. There will be people who have not come across such pain inflictions. Your duty is to understand and not inflict them with your story. That’s the least you can do.
4. This should be one of vital things – Do not change the way you saw the world before you were cast into such a situation. However bad things may seem at the moment, they can and will get better with time. Nothing lasts forever.